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(Addressed to new comers to USA)
Yes, that's right: endurance. Going to a new country represents a tough test for those whose blood pressure and heart levels seem to be in good condition… before starting the trip, of course.
No matter how well trained you may be in the art, but moving sometimes can really be synonym to stress.
Before you make the big step of going to the country itself you should try and accomplish a minimum of requirements, which can go from getting yourself instructed about the foreign country, to taking the necessary documentation, just for your own sake and for eventually avoiding high levels of stress and pressure.
A good way to start could be reading about the country you are traveling to, before you make the trip itself. Getting in advance knowledge of the culture they will be placed in, helps many people to deal with different sorts of situations and helps them as well, to not to be taken by surprise by awkward experiences. By reading about the people, the weather and the attractions of the site you are going to, and even about how law works, may be considerably suitable. Also, try and keep in mind that all the knowledge may not be in the books, magazines, newspapers and sites you read or visit, but also in other people's experiences.
A wide range of situations may rise upon the arrival to your destination point: getting out of the airport (in a country whose language you barely speak); trying to understand cab rates; finding a suitable hotel to spend the first nights; finding good (healthy) places to eat at; looking for accommodation (Oops! It hurts!) Possibly in a state where you have around 20 people living per mile… you do not have to feel discouraged if getting two appointments to fill in an application forms out of 20 calls, other than that, you should consider yourself lucky.
Getting your driving license (locating the nearest MDV, trying to get there even when lacking a car, etc); opening a bank account (getting your Social Security Number first, obviously), getting a loan for buying a car (even a second hand one) and (in case you lack a job) trying to make profit of your time, avoiding TV programs such as Jerry Springer and those that present judges on …
Getting yourself busy on weekends, even when thousands of miles from your relatives and nearest friends…
From this range, it is hard to say the scale from 1 to 10 for each one of them, but sure you yourself can make a judgment for it and your own comments as well.
They may sound as if insurmountable obstacles, but once you learn the "tricks" on the way to deal with them, then they become routine. Let us view it as if a passing season, and not a fixed condition of weather.
I particularly think that the time span for a person to get used to the new place goes from 5 to 7 months time, so you should feel lucky if you have already surpassed that limit of time, and if not, then try and nourish yourself with endurance. Never mind how pressured you may feel, but the truth is that as long as you keep strength against different obstacles on the way, they will just turn into meaningful remembrances in a long term period.
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